家庭雕塑

<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; word-break: break-all; line-height: 32px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: "Lantinghei SC", "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", "Songti TC", 宋体, Arial, sans-serif, "Heiti SC", Tahoma; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal;">一致性第一要素<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; word-break: break-all; line-height: 32px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: "Lantinghei SC", "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", "Songti TC", 宋体, Arial, sans-serif, "Heiti SC", Tahoma; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal;">在访谈开始之前先做一个简短的落地冥想，或花一点时间保持安静和自己待在一起，根据需要决定时间长短,这能让每一个人在那个当下更加回到自己中心并保持一致性。<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; word-break: break-all; line-height: 32px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: "Lantinghei SC", "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", "Songti TC", 宋体, Arial, sans-serif, "Heiti SC", Tahoma; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal;">在个人生活中，也可以练习。总之，试着保持落地和一致性去和你的家庭成员打招呼。这是你在一天里至始至终都可以做的。<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; word-break: break-all; line-height: 32px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: "Lantinghei SC", "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", "Songti TC", 宋体, Arial, sans-serif, "Heiti SC", Tahoma; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal;">
<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; word-break: break-all; line-height: 32px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: "Lantinghei SC", "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", "Songti TC", 宋体, Arial, sans-serif, "Heiti SC", Tahoma; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal;">临在第二要素<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; word-break: break-all; line-height: 32px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: "Lantinghei SC", "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", "Songti TC", 宋体, Arial, sans-serif, "Heiti SC", Tahoma; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal;">当你们作为访问者和明星工作时，100%的聚焦在自己和明星当下的状态里，这能让周围的人们都能感受到安全和被抱持的能量；<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; word-break: break-all; line-height: 32px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: "Lantinghei SC", "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", "Songti TC", 宋体, Arial, sans-serif, "Heiti SC", Tahoma; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal;">如果你是观察者的话，你也需要“临在”状态。去看到明星、访问者当下发生了什么，并且抱持整个历程的能量，在当下的历程中，你的能量对于托住整个历程会非常重要；<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; word-break: break-all; line-height: 32px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: "Lantinghei SC", "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", "Songti TC", 宋体, Arial, sans-serif, "Heiti SC", Tahoma; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal;">在你的日常生活中，也可以和他人练习如何保持临在——只需要短短的几秒。或者也可能需要更长的时间。去真正的听并且集中注意力在对你重要的人身上，哪怕只有短暂的时间，同时也让自己在那一刻保持临在。这会是一个非常有力量的体验。<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; word-break: break-all; line-height: 32px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: "Lantinghei SC", "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", "Songti TC", 宋体, Arial, sans-serif, "Heiti SC", Tahoma; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal;">
<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; word-break: break-all; line-height: 32px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: "Lantinghei SC", "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", "Songti TC", 宋体, Arial, sans-serif, "Heiti SC", Tahoma; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal;">连接第三要素<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; word-break: break-all; line-height: 32px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: "Lantinghei SC", "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", "Songti TC", 宋体, Arial, sans-serif, "Heiti SC", Tahoma; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal;">当你做到前两个元素时，连接会变得自然而然，人们可以感觉到与你的连接。在整个雕塑过程中都要与明星以及扮演其他家庭成员的学员保持连接、与整个历程保持着连接。<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; word-break: break-all; line-height: 32px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: "Lantinghei SC", "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", "Songti TC", 宋体, Arial, sans-serif, "Heiti SC", Tahoma; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal;">练习一致性，临在，然后试着觉察和人之间紧密连接。<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; word-break: break-all; line-height: 32px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: "Lantinghei SC", "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", "Songti TC", 宋体, Arial, sans-serif, "Heiti SC", Tahoma; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal;">
<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; word-break: break-all; line-height: 32px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: "Lantinghei SC", "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", "Songti TC", 宋体, Arial, sans-serif, "Heiti SC", Tahoma; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal;">冰山第四要素<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; word-break: break-all; line-height: 32px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: "Lantinghei SC", "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", "Songti TC", 宋体, Arial, sans-serif, "Heiti SC", Tahoma; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal;">雕塑过程一直在冰山层面工作，保持聚焦在他们的内在历程和内在体验，通过冰山探索我们可以变得非常有力量。<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; word-break: break-all; line-height: 32px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: "Lantinghei SC", "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", "Songti TC", 宋体, Arial, sans-serif, "Heiti SC", Tahoma; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal;">如果你是采访者，保持注意力在你的明星的内在体验上，用心听他们的故事，对故事本身保持好奇的同时，也要对冰山的内部工作。<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; word-break: break-all; line-height: 32px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: "Lantinghei SC", "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", "Songti TC", 宋体, Arial, sans-serif, "Heiti SC", Tahoma; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal;">（试着和你的家庭成员练习问一个冰山问题，如“你怎么看它呢”“你期待着什么呢”“你现在感觉如何？”）<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; word-break: break-all; line-height: 32px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: "Lantinghei SC", "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", "Songti TC", 宋体, Arial, sans-serif, "Heiti SC", Tahoma; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal;">仅一个问题就可以和人连接上并且让整个对话朝完全不同的方向发展。<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; word-break: break-all; line-height: 32px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: "Lantinghei SC", "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", "Songti TC", 宋体, Arial, sans-serif, "Heiti SC", Tahoma; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal;">
<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; word-break: break-all; line-height: 32px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: "Lantinghei SC", "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", "Songti TC", 宋体, Arial, sans-serif, "Heiti SC", Tahoma; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal;">好奇第五要素<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; word-break: break-all; line-height: 32px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: "Lantinghei SC", "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", "Songti TC", 宋体, Arial, sans-serif, "Heiti SC", Tahoma; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal;">对工作对象始终保持好奇，好奇明星发生了什么，正在发生什么，他们的内在体验、内在历程，关注他们的冰山。<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; word-break: break-all; line-height: 32px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: "Lantinghei SC", "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", "Songti TC", 宋体, Arial, sans-serif, "Heiti SC", Tahoma; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal;">如果你是采访者，保持你的注意力在他们的内在体验，练习中尽量把注意力集中在内在的发生并且对冰山保持好奇。<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; word-break: break-all; line-height: 32px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: "Lantinghei SC", "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", "Songti TC", 宋体, Arial, sans-serif, "Heiti SC", Tahoma; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal;">在个人生活中，可以对你正在交谈的对象保持好奇。试着不仅仅是去看故事和习惯而是对人本身保持好奇。这会使能量会变得非常不同，会创造一种安全的能量，很多人会感觉到真正的被尊重也会变得更开放。<span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: "Lantinghei SC", "Helvetica Neue", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", "Songti TC", 宋体, Arial, sans-serif, "Heiti SC", Tahoma; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;">